5 Signs To Tell When To Let It Go!!
Falling in love can be such a heart rushing yet beautiful experience. It's the butterflies that form in the pit of your stomach when the love of your life name shows up on the caller id, they're the first person you think about when you open your eyes and the last person on your mind before you slip away into slumber land. While a lot of us can relate to this specific feeling, only a few of us continue on this journey of building a lifetime bond with each other. For the rest of us.... Sigh. The fire quickly burns out, leaving us confused on how we ended up here.
Today I'm going to share with you 5 signs that will let you know, it's time to go!
1.) You no longer feel you can be yourself around each other. Many time when we get into a relationship, we sometimes start to change ourselves to better suit our partner...ABSOLUTELY NOT! When you met this person, they knew who you were and what you bring to the table. That jokingly, fun spirit doesn't have to be put on the back burner because your partner isn't a fan. Instead be with someone who loves this trait about you!
2.) Your entire mood changes, for the worst, when you're around each other. Have you ever been with someone and the moment they enter the room it's like a dark cloud has found it's way into you life? Constantly trailing your every move? If so, time to figure out an exit plan. No sense in being unhappy when you're able to change the outcome.
3.) You stop considering each others feelings. Disagreements will happen, it's inevitable! However, if you're constantly talking with your spouse and they're are working hard to not understand where you're coming from. Always feeling like you're complaining about everything... sounds like some changes need to be made and FAST!
4.) Being affectionate toward each other is a thing of the past. If your partner is an affectionate person but you all of a sudden notice a change in the way they are with you... RED FLAG!! Now if your partner isn't affectionate then this sign wouldn't be for your situation but if they are I can almost guarantee that you that their feeling might be different.
Lastly, 5.) EVERY CONVERSATION ENDS WITH AN ARGUMENT! Let's be honest with ourselves, arguing all the time is a for certain sign that you're in a toxic situation! No matter what the topic of discussion, it some how ends in a screaming match. You're constantly talking down on each other in the worst possible way, only to do the same exact thing in the next conversation. This behavior isn't healthy and shouldn't be tolerated from anyone!!
Although letting go can be rather difficult, sometimes it's necessary! You making a decision to rid your life of toxic behaviors is giving yourself the self love that's needed! If you're currently feeling reading these signs and feel like you're having Deja' Vu, do yourself a favor and choose you!
1.) You no longer feel you can be yourself around each other. Many time when we get into a relationship, we sometimes start to change ourselves to better suit our partner...ABSOLUTELY NOT! When you met this person, they knew who you were and what you bring to the table. That jokingly, fun spirit doesn't have to be put on the back burner because your partner isn't a fan. Instead be with someone who loves this trait about you!
2.) Your entire mood changes, for the worst, when you're around each other. Have you ever been with someone and the moment they enter the room it's like a dark cloud has found it's way into you life? Constantly trailing your every move? If so, time to figure out an exit plan. No sense in being unhappy when you're able to change the outcome.
3.) You stop considering each others feelings. Disagreements will happen, it's inevitable! However, if you're constantly talking with your spouse and they're are working hard to not understand where you're coming from. Always feeling like you're complaining about everything... sounds like some changes need to be made and FAST!
4.) Being affectionate toward each other is a thing of the past. If your partner is an affectionate person but you all of a sudden notice a change in the way they are with you... RED FLAG!! Now if your partner isn't affectionate then this sign wouldn't be for your situation but if they are I can almost guarantee that you that their feeling might be different.
Lastly, 5.) EVERY CONVERSATION ENDS WITH AN ARGUMENT! Let's be honest with ourselves, arguing all the time is a for certain sign that you're in a toxic situation! No matter what the topic of discussion, it some how ends in a screaming match. You're constantly talking down on each other in the worst possible way, only to do the same exact thing in the next conversation. This behavior isn't healthy and shouldn't be tolerated from anyone!!
Although letting go can be rather difficult, sometimes it's necessary! You making a decision to rid your life of toxic behaviors is giving yourself the self love that's needed! If you're currently feeling reading these signs and feel like you're having Deja' Vu, do yourself a favor and choose you!
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