What's Stopping You?

Imagine this for a moment... Walking along the beautiful black sands in Maui, exploring the sunken city in Kekova, being baptist in the Jordan River and tasting the best of spices in Zanzibar! These are the thoughts that run rapidly inside of my mind, on a daily basis! As I watch my favorite YouTube  Travel couple Kara and Nate, I can't help but imagine myself experiencing different cultures. It then hit me like a speeding train from hell! "Why can't I do this?" Oh, I don't know maybe because I don't have any MONEY! Sigh... I'm broke and the closest thing to me traveling is playing basketball at the YMCA.  Although many people travel for the luxury experience, my main reason for traveling would be to learn how different cultures live. To see how they celebrate life or how they prepare their hometown cuisine. I've always been fascinated with comparing my upbringing to other people around the world. Like... although we speak different language, is our...

Looking back on my 20's, I really didn't have a clue but you bet not tell me that! I was tough like a tiger and nothing could stop, so I thought. I really thought I had it all figured out!  Although I had dreams the size of Mount Everest, I still had a lot to learn about this journey called "LIFE"!  I'm sure a lot of you had conversations with your parents, where they warned you about how important having a plan is, how learning to be more organized is key, and stressing the important of continuing to college so that you'll be set for the real world, should be your top priority. They probably told you not to be "THAT GIRL". You know, the girl that's been in school for years, that changed her major at least 3 or 4 times and still doesn't know what she want's to do in life. Does this ring a bell? Well I've had a chance to get to know that girl and I connected with her on a more personal level. Since then, we've become really clo...

Falling in love can be such a heart rushing yet beautiful experience. It's the butterflies that form in the pit of your stomach when the love of your life name shows up on the caller id, they're the first person you think about when you open your eyes and the last person on your mind before you slip away into slumber land. While a lot of us can relate to this specific feeling, only a few of us continue on this journey of building a lifetime bond with each other. For the rest of us.... Sigh. The fire quickly burns out, leaving us confused on how we ended up here. Today I'm going to share with you 5 signs that will let you know, it's time to go! 1.) You no   longer feel you can be yourself around each other.  Many time when we get into a relationship, we sometimes start to change ourselves to better suit our partner...ABSOLUTELY NOT! When you met this person, they knew who you were and what you bring to the table. That jokingly, fun spirit doesn't have to be put ...

Admittance, according to Merriam and Webster, the act or process of admitting. Sometimes when you're in denial, its hard to come to terms with the idea of you having a problem. Where am I going with this you might ask? Well, I think I have a spending problem... lets be frank. The moment money touches my hand, I instantly have to spend it! It's like a raging fire in the palms of my hand and I have to get it out!! This subject is truly hard to write about being that I'm 31 years of age. At some point you're suppose to gain a sense of financial independence or responsibility whoever, this is nowhere near my situation. I'm blogging to the entire world with the chance of bring on a lot of judgment but I have to be honest with myself. As I repeatedly put myself in this financial holes, I can't help but think about why am I like this? Why am I not normal like everyone else, who's financially responsible. Growing up, being that I was the only girl, my parents ...